Lately I've been looking at the world, this generation, the beliefs many have conformed to. Two in particular that gets under my skin is relationships and marriage. Why are so many females out here looking for a man? WHY? Show me in the bible where there was a woman out searching for a mate? And when you do find somebody it only lasts for about 2 months. You know why? Because you have taken a situation, without consulting God, into your own hands. It clearly states in the bible that "a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one". God knew who your spouse would be before you were born. You have to trust in God, trust that when it is the right time he will bring the one you are meant to be with into your life. Stop searching, God already found him/her for you. All you need to do is live life as it is written in the bible. Living a reckless lifestyle, hopping in one relationship after the other, sexing everything that moves is not going to get you anywhere. Take a look at your life. Are you living right? If you died right now, would you be on track with God? Many of you pray to God and ask for him to bring you somebody but you aren't even living right. Get yourself together first so that you can be the husband/wife that you're spouse will need you to be. Marriage was inspired by God, instituted by God, is preserved by God, and can rightly be dissolved only by God.
It states in Ecclesiastes 4:9-11 "Two people can accomplish more than twice as much as one; they get a better return for their labor. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But people who are alone when they fall are in real trouble. And on a cold night, two under the same blanket can gain warmth from each other. But how can one be warm alone?" One thing that God established while man was still in a sinless condition and said that it was not good for man to do without was marriage. But let God bring that person into your life. You don't need a dating website, all you need is trust in God, he will never steer you wrong. With all of that being said, do not get caught up in the society where you are lead to believe you need a ring or marriage license to prove you are married. Nowhere in the bible is that stated. It is not necessary to wear ornamental things to symbolize a marriage or to symbolize anything. Though you may choose to do so and it certain circumstances especially for military, it is necessary to have a marriage license. Don't get caught up in the worlds idea of marriage. You need to be connected spiritually, mentally, physically, and emotionally. Focus on that when God has blessed you with that special someone. Until then focus on you, and your relationship with God, which is the best relationship you can have
